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You fall in love and get married with the best of intentions. You dream of spending your lives together and often you begin to do so by having children.

But somewhere in the near distance, there are constant reminders, concerns, indifference's and issues that continue to play on your subconscious and tell you that something isn't right and never will be.

You fight it off and continue with your every day life and then it happens. One of you decides that they can no longer exist as part of this couple, this marriage, this intimate relationship that hasn't been intimate in quite some time.

There are so many things to take into account. There's the emotional shock and the raw reality that builds by the moment but you have to push it aside so you can deal with the practical logistics such as:

• What do we tell the kids and how will we "share" their time?
• Who is moving out and who is staying in the house?
• How are we going to manage the finances?
• What will we tell our friends and family?
• Do we really hate each other more than we love each other or do we even love each other at all?
• What's it going to be like being single again?

Let's face it, your married friends can't relate and it's comforting to be with people who have felt similar pain, anger and hurt and like you, just want to start their lives over again and get past the wreckage.